SADO Transcripts 2026

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SADO CIRCLE LIVE #72

JANUARY 8, 2026

Chris: On Monday, Jane texted me and said, “Do you think you’re being presented with some information that you might want to present at our program?” I’m standing there in line at Costco and thinking, “No”.

Jane: But in the meanwhile, SADO was going, “Yes, she does”.

Chris: So, I’m checking out and I texted Jane, saying, “I’ll go to the car and I’ll see what I get, and then I’ll get back to you”. So, I get in the car. And of course, yes, I had been getting all sorts of information that I just wasn’t meshing. And I think it’s kind of a lesson for all of us that signs, symbols and synchronicities don’t come just in feathers and coins and birds and the things that we are familiar with. I was in Costco and I saw a little doll and I thought “Amanda would love that”. Amanda was one of the voices. And I carry them all with me. As I’m driving down I5 and coming home, I see a truck, and I wondered, “That looks like what I bet Henry would be driving”. He was another one of the voices. A couple weeks ago, I was in a bakery, and was overwhelmed with the cinnamon scent, and that’s Martha’s pies. I can smell Martha all over. So, I am carrying all of these spirits with me, and I’m loving this family, but I’m putting them in as a family instead of recognizing all of these little clues that I’m receiving. The main thing was, I put everything away, the whole project. I had a folder of the 12 voices that went to the side of my desk. In the folder was the notebook that included the insights received about all the channeled messages; not the direct 12 voices messages. This notebook sat on my desk, and I looked at it every single day. I would look at it, I’d ponder the insights, and I would remember. I didn’t even get that they were speaking to me through this notebook that was right here on my desk. So, when I got home, I texted Jane, saying, “Yes, I’m definitely going to be doing something with this”. As I sat down at my desk, I realized that not only was “my family” here giving me the go ahead, but SADO was also giving me the go ahead after realizing that these insights meshed with what SADO has been teaching us for over the last decade. So, gleaning out the insights from the information from the 12 Voices, I meshed them with SADO’s teachings. So, in a little bit, what we’ll do is, is I have a sheet that I wrote up the insights, and I wrote up the teaching from SADO’s chapters. I want to go through that because it’s going to be released shortly, SADO’s number one book, “The Awakening”. The chapters are Oneness, Love, Creative Process, Energy, Transition and Life Review, Loved Ones Across the Veil and Peace. Like I said, these insights blended with four of these categories that the voices gave and the chapters in the book. (I know Jane kind of smiled at me, okay, and there’s a little bit more, maybe the other four we’re going to deal with as we go.) But anyway, off I went creating this project and building not just on these 12 voices, but the insights themselves. I suppose you can tell I really am so excited about this. I loved the spirits that I got to know and who shared. I just really, really want to share that with others, not because of making a name for myself as a channeler. It’s just they have such great information to share. I want others to feel like I do when I’m communicating with them and learning from them. I think all of us can learn, not just by channeling, but you can learn from the information that they share.

So, I really would like to have this interactive and please, I have some questions prepared, so hopefully it’ll spur some interaction, because I think it’s important that it’s not just me spewing out all the information that I’ve learned. This is a very intelligent group here that has so much wisdom to share with all of us that I think that it’s important that we all share what we have learned and how this information fits into your life too. We’ll get into that when we get into the insights. I really would like you to feel free to interrupt or ask questions or add whatever you have. And Jane, did you have something else that you – you gave me the floor and said, “Go ahead”. Was there something else that you wanted to know?

Jane: You’re good, you’re good. I really wanted people to know where this was coming from, and you did a great job kind of expressing that so thank you for doing that.

Chris: No, this was not just, “oh, okay, let’s continue on”. There was a process. That process, I think, was… they make it clear. Sometimes they make it clear. Sometimes they don’t make it clear about what they want for us, and they want us to have this information. So, they didn’t make it easy for me because I was not willing to look at it, I guess, but here we are. So now let’s go with it. What I would like to do- I hope this is okay – we usually have a prayer, and so did we want to go ahead with it? Lynn, were you going to do the prayer? We didn’t even talk about that.

Jane: Yes, Lynn, was going to do the prayer tonight.

Chris: Why don’t we go ahead?

Lynn: We call upon the unseen forces that have surrounded this group to strengthen our bond and protect us in our flight. We ask that our vibration be raised to the next level to receive clear and meaningful communication. We ask that we are guided in this journey to discovery. We ask this in God’s name. We are thankful to be chosen for this honor. Your guidance and goodness is appreciated. We feel your love as you walk us through the many questions we have about this life. Your presence is felt in our hearts, heard in our bodies, and embraced in our souls. Amen.

Chris: Not because it was short notice, but it was because I didn’t do it earlier, I’m going to read something if you don’t mind. “As we gather in this circle of presence, we enter with open hearts, curious spirits and gentle breath. All of the voices you’ll hear and discuss today are more than just memories. They are messengers of love, still alive in another form. Let us make this a space of listening, reflection and sacred remembering”. If you don’t mind, I’d like to do a minute or two grounding meditation, just to kind of get us into a place of physically and emotionally into accepting the spiritual messages that we have.

Let’s begin by arriving, feel your body right here in this moment. Let your hands rest, let your shoulders soften. Let your breath find its own gentle rhythm, inhale, exhale. Now with your next breath, imagine you are breathing in the scent of something sacred to you; a flower, a season, a memory. Breathe it in and let it open something inside of you. Now imagine a thread soft and shimmering running from your heart to the heart of someone you love who now walks in spirit. Let them be close, no pressure, no need, just presence. And now, as we begin say silently or aloud, “I am open, I am listening, I am loved, and I am not alone, and so now let’s enter this space together”.

Thank you. Thank you, all of you. I really appreciate you doing that. I can tell that the energy is totally different. Okay, Jane, why don’t we go ahead and as I said I did not get all of these pages made into Docs. But what we do have is a sheet that lists the different insights. As you can see on this one, we’ll start. It’s 1 through 12. The Insight is the white and in the parentheses is the chapter from the SADO book, and this one is about Spirit Loved Ones. As I said, these were insights that I received as they were channeling to me, and as I was seeing how their information fits into our lives, not just exactly what they were saying, but what it meant in our lives.

And so, the first insight was their answers are in relation to our living, our healing and our growing, even though the questions were asked of them. So, to me, it was interesting to see that, if you if you read them, you realize that it’s not ego. It’s not ego based at all. They’re not speaking about themselves or their experience. It’s their experience of us. And so, in the first question, the discussion questions that I have down is if their answers are in relation to our living and our healing and our growing. “How do you feel your spirit loved ones might be helping you grow?” That’s open to anybody and you’re welcome to just unmute yourselves and we can talk unless you have something, some machinery, or something like that in your background. I can’t see if people are raising their hands or talking.

Jane: I can monitor that for you Chris.

Chris: Thanks. Jane.

So how do you feel your spirit loved ones might be helping you grow? Do you have a sense of that? Do you have any messages, any sensations that they are with you and helping you?

Jane: Participant 1 has her hand up, Chris.

Chris: Go ahead, Participant 1.

Participant 1: Yeah, I definitely do. I just feel a peace and a contentment amidst all the chaos that’s going on. I study numerology, and I was just on an exploration into 2026 with a group. Yeah, there is a lot of chaos, but I feel the calm in myself, and I have the peace, and I believe that, especially my mother – you’d think it was my daughter because she was more recent. Mom died in 2000, so she’s been gone a long time, but she’s always with me. I’m always hearing her in my head. You know “if it doesn’t kill you, it makes you stronger” and “put on your big girl pants”. And you know it is what I need to hear, and I need to always remind myself, and it is a place of peace for me, especially amongst the chaos.

Chris: Yeah, yeah. It’s wonderful that you’ve discovered that about yourself. I mean we all have our own ways of finding peace and there’s all sorts of ways and trusting that you know that it’s your mom.

Participant 1: Yeah, yeah, right. And my daughter, she lives. I found pot seeds the other day when I was deep cleaning after construction. Sorry for anyone who lived here before me, 35 years ago, or my daughter left them there for me. It was very funny.

Jane: Chris, Participant 2 has her hand up as well.

Chris: Go ahead Participant 2.

Participant 2: I just want to build on what she said. For me, since my son crossed the veil, and built up these relationships and the fun of the communication and all that awareness. So, by receiving messages from him, my mother, and not sure who else, it’s a sense of I’m not alone and encouragement. And so, when I’m really pondering something that I can say, “Hey, Kobe, I haven’t heard from you for a while. You know, such and such. I would really like to see a message, you know, a sign from you”. It just gives me a bit of encouragement on whatever path or whatever on, wherever I’m at or whatever’s occurring. So just some silliness, the funniness of with playing with the signs for me is the knowing, knowing that they truly are with us despite all the past conditioning of the aspect of where your soul is and so on. So anyway, to answer your question you put out to everybody. That’s kind of how it’s been occurring for me.

Chris: Good for you, Participant 2, and the fact that you’re trusting it, that you’re trusting what you’re getting, and that encourages you to ponder more, to take the time to reflect on whatever it is that brings them closer to you. Yeah, that’s great.

Jane: I think Chris too that it’s not only our spirit loved ones. I think sometimes it is our spiritual development helpers. It’s SADO, it’s our guidance that are also helping us live this life in a way that we perhaps wouldn’t have lived ourselves. I think a lot of us kind of pat ourselves on the back for being such great people to make our own positive things that happen. Sometimes we have to look and say, “I had nothing to do with that” but somehow, here I am in the presence of a thing, a person, an animal, a sight of some kind, and you’re thinking that “I had nothing to do with this. This is being orchestrated by something, someone so much bigger than I am” and to trust that. To trust that you’re not alone, to trust that even though when something awful happens and you find out that was the best thing that could possibly happen for you, and you realize that it wasn’t awful.

An example is my husband had both of his hips done, one in July and one in October so we’re the “hippie” people. He got some bad information from a PA, and who delayed his surgery for about 18 months, and so couldn’t get in and, long story short, by a fluke, he got registered under another orthopedic surgeon. It wasn’t the one that was working with his PA. This guy was absolutely the perfect surgeon to work with both of us. We’d never heard of him before. We had no idea who he was. We had to drive an hour to the hospital he was practicing in. The whole shot was like,” Oh my gosh. This is just awful. Oh my gosh, oh my gosh”. Well, it worked out perfectly. We didn’t have anything to do with that, but in following Spirit’s lead, we could have said, “No, we’re going to wait for this other guy that was recommended”. But we knew that Spirit was involved, that Spirit was the one who was orchestrating this in a very positive way. So I think that if we can open ourselves up and not have to say, “Oh, this is coming from Aunt B”, we can just say, this is Spirit love that’s coming into my life that’s helping me to live this life in a way that is going to be best for my own growth and my highest and best throughout.

Chris: That is so beautiful, that’s exactly, you know, we talk about the trust. Jane, thank you for that great example too, because there’s divine timing and divine orchestration and we just have to trust it instead of staying in that ego state of thinking that we know best. We need to step back and trust that something else is working with us. And yeah, like you say, it can be any of them because all of them are One, and all of them communicate so they all know what we all need. Thank you. Thank you. It’s nice to see faces again. Jane, you just explained yours. What kind of healing have you noticed in yourself since their passing? And this is specifically about spirit loved ones, as opposed to your guidance team or SADO, or anybody else who is working with you. Have you noticed what’s healed in you?

Jane: No.

Chris: Okay, well, I know with me, I have always been a physically healthy person, but I don’t take that for granted. I am more and more aware of that, and so the healing has come in not just taking it for granted but being really aware. My husband has Parkinson’s, and so he has the Parkinson’s difficulties of balance and that, and so I don’t want to fall and break my hip or something so I am just extremely cautious when I’m putting on my pants or when I’m putting on pajamas or something like that so that I don’t fall down. The healing in me has increased my awareness, not just in looking for Spirit, but increase my awareness of my own bodily needs so that I remain healthy. I think that there are a lot of ways that we can be healed with their help.

Can you sense their continued presence and guidance in your life? Can you and how do you sense their presence?

It might not be an easy thing because it’s probably not something you ponder every single day but are you aware when your loved ones, when SADO, when your guidance team, there could be guidance teams from anybody else in your family too that is around you.

Participant 2: Yeah, back to signs, between signs, and I’m just recently, well, the last couple months, just from the lost keys to the right road to take. I need to think what some of the latest ones were. I mean, I just outright hear a voice of guidance or, of not trepidation, but redirect me, whether it’s a choice or what not. But yeah, I get, it’s back to the signs. I get so many different signs but also as I said I just get so much guidance on little things in life now, whether it’s “Did I lock the gate or the door? Did I turn off the key? Did I leave something on the stove?” I mean, just all these little things. I just, I get a little nudge, and it’s a knowingness. And so, I get a variety. And in those cases, I know it’s more of guidance versus loved ones across the veil. I know that’s it’s more of a general guidance. Yeah, but it’s been really fun as I said before.

Jane: Can you explain how you know the difference? You say you know that it’s kind of gentle; it’s more guidance than loved ones across the veil. What is, how does that feel different for you? Or how does it sound? Or, how do you know?

Participant 2: Well, sometimes, sometimes a very bold voice. And it’s right on the tip my tongue, I’m trying to remember a recent one, and I can’t remember what the exact example was, but I just heard the voice. I mean I heard a voice and it was just a very much knowing that it wasn’t what I associate with Kobe or any very definite knowingness. Other times I do sense a presence, or I’ll get a whiff of a scent that might not have an association, but it’s enough to kind of jolt me to say, hey, that’s there’s somebody here assisting, offering. So, a lot of it is, it’s a hearing. It’s a hearing. I mean, I said it’s just very bold. Like an example I had about two years ago now, and it was communication from my mule. We were out doing an exercise, and she swung her butt around and flung her foot out at me, her hind leg, and I heard it, “I don’t like pressure”. Now, that came from her. Okay, that’s a little example, but that’s it, but the aspect is I hear a very definite voice. And that came from her, but I hear that in other ones, in situations like I said, and then it’s a general knowingness. It’s hard to explain that knowingness or just that nudge, like I said, all of a sudden, it’s like, what? Why did it occur to me to think, to turn, you know, check the turn something off, or turn something on, or close something. I call it a nudge. But then that’s more of a physical feeling to turn myself around and go check what it is I’ve been urged to go check. So that’s a physical feeling I get. Does that answer your question?

Jane: Yeah, that’s perfect. Thank you. I guess I’m wondering about the same thing with Participant 3 though. Do you notice a difference Participant 3 between information or the presence of a loved one than the presence of guidance?

Participant 3: You’re talking to me, right?

Jane: I am.

Participant 3: Okay. Um, I just want to put make sure. More presence from my daughter Destiny. She likes riding in the car with me. I guess I don’t listen as well as what I should. I know the guidance is there, but I have to more really focus into it to get it. Instead of it coming to me, I kind of have to go to it, if that makes sense and all. But I don’t have a big hit over the head with a pan yet other than with my daughter. I can feel her in the car and, and her speech and that sort of thing. And I’m sure she’s relaying what as she’s the messenger for everybody else.

Jane: And do you need to get hit over the head with a pan?

Participant 3: Sometimes. My head’s really hard though. But as far as going back definitely her death was for my growth. That’s how I really see what happened with that situation and the healing you own show the signs, going back to her signs and knowing at the beginning, seeing those signs, and knowing, okay, there’s something more here, you know, which, of course, opened a ton of doors and that sort of thing so that was very healing for me. But then to also be able to go, turn around and help others, I learned was also a source of healing. And so, I’m progressing. And there’s a lot of doors open, and it seems like every time I open a door and get a question answered, then I’ve got a lot more questions and stuff, but definitely the whole, the whole thing, and I’m really trying to work more with my guides and relying on them as well, and understanding that they’re here as well and not just be, you know, tunnel vision on one, I guess, is the best way to put it.

Jane: Awesome. Thank you. And Chris, Participant 4 has her hand up too, sure.

Chris: Go ahead. Participant 4, thank you.

Participant 4: So, for me, I feel like I hear my husband, like I feel him, and I feel like I hear His voice. And when it’s Spirit, it’s often like, I heard somebody talking about, I was, I had cats fighting, and I was running around here trying to listen, but somebody was talking about just getting those hunches, like, I get these little reminders. I too am, 59 now so sometimes, you know, I’m getting… and I have a business, and I’m scattered to the wind sometimes, and but then I get hunches. I feel like I’m being… I almost feel like I have border collies with me. And they kind of have, they’re kind of like guiding me around, you know? And it feels very different when and sometimes I’ll hear direct, but that’s almost like it’s…. I hear words without hearing a voice, like words come in my head, but I’m not hearing a voice. But with my husband, I hear a voice. I don’t know if that makes any sense at all.

Chris: Yeah, absolutely, and it’s just like we’ve said so many times, it’s trusting that, yes, you are hearing this and it doesn’t matter what somebody else says or whatever somebody else believes. You know what your experience is. The more you accept it and talk to them and thank them, show your gratitude, the more that they are going to continue to communicate with you, not just your husband, but your guidance team. All of them will, because they know that you’re getting it. And they send hundreds of messages a day. And so, we are the ones that just need to be there and aware to pick them up.

Participant 4: I thank them all the time, and every once in a while, I’ll hear “no, that was you. You actually remembered that.”

Chris: Now figure out what that feels like. You know, identify what that energy feels like, so you know the difference between your Higher Self speaking to you and Spirit. That’s great. That’s great.

Jane: Chris, Participant 5 has her hand up.

Participant 5: Okay, okay, sorry, it was, it was brown. Sorry. But there, there is certain situations that I can feel who is coming in. So, like when I sometimes, have the chills, I feel like that’s Spirit, …like angels, my angels are coming in. And then for my dad, I feel like I can smell him and my Nana I get like this…she always used Jergens, the cherry almond, and that’s guaranteed her, because nobody else that I know ever used that, so I definitely know that’s her. So that’s how I can, like, differentiate who’s coming through and my mom. It’s like my mom is always there. So, it’s a happy, excited …so much love. And I mean, they all have love, but she just like “I’m so excited to see you” and this and that. And, I mean, we’re like best friends. So, it’s that best friend, love and the mama together. So, I mean, gosh, is like overwhelming now, like I feel emotional right now, but it’s just you have certain different feelings for each one, well I do, and then that’s how I can figure out who it is. And then you sometimes just know that without even questioning who it is, you know. I’ll just say, “oh, hi Mom” because I know it’s her, or I’ll say, “Hi Dad, thank you, thank you for that rainbow. Thank you for all these gifts” and I always see birds, and that’s totally my mom. Yesterday, I was at the car service, and I was looking out the window, and right there were two birds in the wire. I love seeing birds on the wire. And then I started thinking all about them and just having this whole big conversation in my mind because earlier, I saw a tree with all the birds came on, and it was crows I think, and then a hawk was coming by and they all flew off. And then I was thinking, “Oh, so now everybody laughs, do they like, sit on the tree as families like husband, wife, brother, sister? I’m going through all this crazy conversation in my head, and because I’m thinking, “do you want to have family?” or did it go away and go live somewhere else, another state, you know, but it just makes that’s probably what my mom was thinking because she loved birds. We used to feed the birds if we’re outside somewhere, like at a park, and we will be the ones feeding birds. So, it’s just whatever they like, and you know, so much that connects with them. That’s usually how I know who’s come to me.

Chris: Great. And by you being so aware, your awareness is opening up, and that’s why the thinking you’re doing all this processing, all of that processing brings it even more and you progress.

Participant 5: Yes, thank you.

Jane: Hey, Participant 6, you had your hand up. Do you still have something to say?

Participant 6: Um, well, it was a double purpose. I was trying to help Barbara to find where to raise her hand. Yeah, and I think sometimes I take for granted that I don’t realize that I’m hearing and I am. And then, I had this situation that I shared with you, Chris. I don’t know if I wrote about it in the blog, but last month, I said to Allen after we finished, I would really like to hear from my father because I have heard from other family members, but I’ve told him not to touch my feet which is what he used to do when I was a kid, and he did shift work, and it really used to freak me out. So, I told Allen that last month when we met and then the next day, we’re in the kitchen and my car starts honking, and Allen looks at me and goes, your car doesn’t do that. And I said I know it doesn’t. And my father was fastidious about taking care of his car, and I just knew right then that it was my dad, and he gave me a message. I also wanted to tell you that Barbara was raising her hand.

Jane: Yeah, I see that. But thank you. Thanks for making sure we can see that.

Participant 7: Thank you, Participant 6, for the help. I couldn’t figure out how to raise my hand.

Participant 7: So, for me, when I’m in my treatment room, I kind of distinguish between, like my family members or people that I’ve actually known and my guidance. My guidance often comes through as a body sensation like chills. You know, I’ll ask a specific question, thanks to SADO’s guidance, actually, about, you know, I’m getting information, and I’ll, I’ll ask, okay, is this information just for me, or is this information something I need to share with my client? And then I’ll get a body sensation. I have to ask sometimes twice, like, okay, is this one for me? And then if there’s no chill, then I’ll ask is this for my client? And then I’ll get a confirmation that it is. So, that happens a lot in my treatment room. A lot of times it’s scent for me. In my car right now, I’m getting all of these, the smell of like Lucky Strike cigarettes. I know exactly what it is. I have no idea from whom it is coming or what the message is, so I just keep asking. It’s like, okay, just but it’s in my car. It is when I’m in my car, not near anything that smells or has fragrance. So, it’s like that. And then other times it’s like – who was just sharing, lovely share, about the birds. So, lots of times it’s just a knowing, like a natural knowing, like if I pay attention, like I will know like, “hi, is that you?” and I’ll get a confirmation. So, it’s kind of learning how to dance with them.

Chris: Exactly.

Participant 7: For me, that that’s what it feels like. It’s kind of learning how to communicate the way they communicate and paying attention.

Chris: Exactly. You know, sometimes they do the Cha Cha and sometimes they do the waltz. You need to know how to do both of the dances to be able to communicate with them. Yeah, yes. That was great. Thanks.

Jane: Great. And Participant 7, I had one question too, or a comment, I guess or so. If you didn’t want or if you didn’t care who it was that was smoking the Lucky Strikes and you asked them what the message was as opposed to trying to figure out who it was, do you think that would give you a different response?

Participant 7: That actually is what I ask. I don’t really care who it is. I was curious in the beginning. It’s like is this Uncle Don or is this Uncle Bob? Because it had to be around that time period when my grandfather was alive and all the guys would hang out and, and, yeah, so I recognize that. And then I thought, well, it doesn’t really matter.

Jane: Right. It doesn’t matter how it is no, right.

Participant 7: And so now my request is more like give me the eyes with which to see your guidance. Or let me know, give me a sign, give me more information, give me more guidance. And that works. Often, I will get it if I ask.

Jane: Good, good, good, good. That’s awesome, right? That’s awesome. That’s cool.

Chris: If we don’t have anymore, we can go on to the second insight. Thank you, Jane. Insight 2: All of the voices they express love as the epitome of our existence and connection. And naturally, we think that, oh yeah, we talk about love, but it was overwhelming that not just the answers about love, but about healing and grieving and traditions and celebration. Everything had like a tootsie roll. I mean, that’s what I’m seeing. The outside of the Tootsie Roll is love and it goes all the way in with every topic that they spoke about, and it was really beautiful to see. It’s not that they would twist it to love, but they would just move whatever topic it was to “the answer is love”.

This is kind of an interesting one – What does love feel like beyond the physical? That’s getting us to not look at being a spirit because we can’t. I mean we are spirit, but we’re not totally a spirit to experience love in the Spirit. What does it feel like beyond the physical that you can experience, maybe some of these experiences that we were just talking about, about the connection. Thank you, Jane. Is that making sense? That question, do you understand? Because it’s not asking you, “How does it feel? How does love feel to our spirits? But how does it feel to us?” Oh, let’s see. How does love feel like beyond the physical? Because we can, we can love a tree. We can love lasagna. We can love our animals. But how does love feel to you beyond what we call physical, but that’s usually the mental or the emotional, strong attachment.

Jane: Can I back us up by one Chris?

Chris: Of course.

Jane: And say, first of all ask, “What does love feel like to you?” and then figure out whether that’s mental or physical or emotional and then see if we can move it to a different …

Chris: OK, so that’s a pretty deep one to be asking here. Would anybody like to share what their feeling of love is?

Jane: So, I’ll start, if that helps. So, love, to me, feels warm and gushy inside. If I feel love in a different way but still physical, I might see love that is much softer, no hard edges on whatever that would happen be – the tree, the dog, I am a big dog fan so lots of dogs, even a person. But beyond the physical is more cerebral to me. For other people, it might be more emotional, but to me, it’s more cerebral about why I feel love from that person, or why I feel love from myself to that person. It’s more verbiage than it is if I’m feeling love physically. I think we’ll probably find that’s different for everybody. Participant 4 has her hand up.

Chris: Sure. Go ahead Participant 4.

Christina: It’s definitely I agree that it’s warm, but for me, I see love as a verb. It’s an action word and so like what I was talking about earlier, when I’m feeling like I’m being guided that way, that feels like love to me. So, really to me, when there are actions being taken with my best good in mind, from, whether it’s spirit or, my husband, or my loved ones with me now. It’s it feels the same. It’s that care.

Chris: Yeah. As Jane was talking, when she said the soft, and Participant 4, as you said, soft too, what I was seeing was safety and protection. My word this year is boundaries so I’m working on boundaries. But I don’t see love as boundaries, because it, it went all over, but it was safety in wherever those boundaries are. That the safeness, the feel of maximum comfort. Anyway, thank you that both of you brought that up for me. So, I guess I’m going to have to look at that.

Jane: Well, I was just going to say, Chris, what about you? What does love feel like beyond the physical for you?

Chris: Okay, I can explain like Monday when all of this happened, and I knew that my family was right here and they were cheering and saying, “Alright, we’re going to do it again.” That’s what the comfort and the safety was for me because I had all this love for the last month. They were surrounding me with it, and it was a circle of comfort. And it was the old. It wasn’t knowing, it was trusting. It was trusting all of them and that was the comfort.

OK. Where are we? We’re in “Love”. Have you felt a deepened connection with someone in spirit? Have you felt a deepened connection with someone in spirit?

I guess I can say exactly what I was just talking about. You know, with my family, my new family, this was a deeper connection. I didn’t know them. These were not spirit- one of them, one of them was my uncle, and I think I said that last time I have never channeled him. He passed when I was five, and so I didn’t know him in this life. So, all the others were new to me. I mean, there was a DNA connection, but there was no connection with the other ones.

Participant 1: I’m thinking rather than deeper; different. And I don’t know if that’s what you’re talking about, but I’m seeing very different connections with loved ones who passed. Maybe closer, maybe more loving, but just different than when they were in body. So, I don’t know if that’s what you’re looking for.

Chris: No, this is coming from you. So, Participant 1, it’s okay. I’d love to hear from all of you. So, you know, it’s not what I’m looking for. It’s just us kind of looking deeper into our heart.

Participant 1: So yeah, I would definitely say, you know, well, with my grandpa, it’s a lot deeper, because I was never close to him when he was on this planet, and I’m very close to him now. He took my nephew who passed away recently under his wing, and that was needed, and I respected that. After he’s passed away long time ago, I’ve gained a deeper respect for him. I followed his path in Africa, where he shot animals which I thought was just horrific and horrid, and I thought I was going there to even out the karma. He went there in 1950 and, he threw money into the economy and helped them, the people, by shooting these animals for trophies where I photographed them. And I learned a lot about him on that trip. So, I kind of feel like I’m closer to some people, some loved ones. I’m definitely closer with my guides and my spirits. I think guides and loved ones are kind of, for me, blurry, because I believe a couple of my guides were loved ones. But anyway, I would say “different” rather than “deepened”. But I don’t know. To me, it’s like apples and oranges. You just can’t compare the two.

Chris: It’s something to kind of ponder.

Participant 1: Yeah, it is definitely. Thank you.

Chris: Lynn, go ahead.

Lynn: Okay, what I was thinking when you were talking about this, Chris, was not only a deeper connection, but I’m thrilled that they’re available 24/7. It’s so frustrating for the ones on Earth who are trying to connect with your loved ones; you can’t get them on the phone; they don’t answer. But your loved ones in the spirit are pretty much there anytime, all the time, surrounding you.

Jane: I guess I would ask, I would piggyback on what Lynn said, and I would say, I would ask that question of Lynn, Edwina, Chris to say, “What about your connection with SADO over the last 15 years?”

Lynn: My goodness, that has strengthened and deepened so much. We were so in awe when we first started, and we had no idea who we were talking to, what they were going to tell us, how they were going to guide us. Can you imagine? I mean, if you look at through the transcripts, 10 years’ worth of all this communication, and the stuff we didn’t write down ..is this, you know, is the 24/7, the calling, and where it’s taken us, where it’s brought us to all of you, it’s just amazing, and we’re forever grateful.

Chris: Edwina, did you want to say something? Because I don’t want to take over. If you wanted to say something.

Edwina: I did have a thought, not so much with the connection to SADO, though what Lynn is saying is very, very true. But the deepened connection with someone in spirit, I can speak about my experience with my daughter. Over time that relationship has deepened a great deal because when she died, she was pretty much alienated from me, and I thought I had lost the opportunity to reconcile with her, and it turned out that was not at all. So, all the signs, messages, everything that I received from her after her passing were very positive and loving, and it very much improved and deepened the relationship between us.

Jane: I know we’re just about ready to finish up here Chris, but I’m just going to say that sometimes I think, and maybe this is, again, just me, but there’s been more of an understanding of those who have crossed than I was able to get when they were in body, an understanding of who they were, why they presented themselves the way they did, what their behavior was, and to be able to kind of separate that nature and nurture a little bit after they left the body, and even, for sometimes for them to apologize or to say that was the ego, and that what was going on there. So, for me, that creates a deeper connection as well to really be able to understand and that’s also helped me understand those who are in body still. That, okay, this is the ego talking, this is not the spiritual being that I know is in there and so forth. So, I like that question, the deepened connection, because it’s very much different than I thought that it would be. But SADO also, is very definitely as we work together, and felt that this is just weird to a point where we started accepting, to a point where we started listening, to a point where we were able to learn from and to look at the guidance and be able to kind of work through it in that way.

Participant 6, you had your hand up.

Participant 6: I’ve had my relationship with my sister really deepen. She is/was 4 years and 11 days older than me. We lived in the typical really horrible, dysfunctional home. We had no relationship at all, and through a trance medium, I have had conversations with her and it’s like what happened growing up doesn’t matter, because that’s not what it’s about now. It really is just about the love between us and understanding that we both made a commitment before we reincarnated what we were going to learn in that family experience. So that’s definitely deepened.

Jane: That’s lovely, yeah. Well, I just want to take a minute and just thank, oh, Participant 8 has got her hand up. We’ll do that.

Participant 8: Yeah, I just wanted to say that what I have found interesting is watching the people who I know across the veil change and grow. I’m seeing stuff that I never saw when they were in body. And that’s sort of an interesting thing to see. It’s like you have a continuing relationship with them, and it’s changing. It changes you, too, because they’re different than they were when you were interacting with them, when they were in body.

Jane: right, right? Very cool, sort of cool. Yeah, very.

Chris: That’s exactly what some of the voices said, too. You know, a five-and-a-half-year old little girl was a five-and-a-half-year old little girl, but now she is way beyond that where she is now. Some of them talked about that. “I’m not who I was then, but I learned what I was supposed to, or maybe I didn’t learn what I was supposed to, but now I am. Now I’m continuing that.” And Jane, did you have something?

Jane: No, I was just going to kind of wrap up. And thank you very much, Chris, for putting all of this together for us. We’re super excited to go through everything else that you have prepared for us, and that will happen next month, and then the month after will be the other four that she hasn’t done yet, but that will happen. I also wanted to thank you all so much for being here, and to remind you that the book club is actually not this Saturday, but next Saturday. It’s the 17th. It’s early this month, because we started the month early, right? So, the third Saturday is actually the 17th, and we will meet at 11 o’clock Eastern to get Participant 1 to be able to be there with us. So, if you are interested in joining the book club, just get on the website and you can go into book club and be able to register. But everyone’s welcome to come. It’s a wonderful group of people who are really kind of going through this. I was hoping Diane would stay on, but she must have had to get off. We are working right along. Wendy’s got the Book One pretty much ready to be, and we’re going to get together on Friday and ask some questions and talk about some specifics, but she’s got it pretty well ready. And then Janet is going to be the one who’s going to put it in the format for Amazon publishing. So, we are right around the corner for having Book One ready to come out so we’re super excited about that. So, thank you again, Chris, so much for all your hard work.

Chris: Can I say one thing that will kind of pull this together because Laura was the last voice that talked. Her story was she didn’t want to pass because she had breast cancer and she was worried about her children, and so she had this picture of love like that. She was the epitome of motherhood. But what she said, and this is the last thing that was channeled throughout this whole thing, when asked, “What do you now understand about love and connection beyond the physical life?” “As stated before, love is not merely a feeling experienced in human form, but the connection, the thread that can actually flow through spirit connections, binding all entities into the One. Love is the most important lesson we learn in the physical form and when we return to spirit form.”

Jane: Wow, lovely.

Chris: I thought that was quite beautiful.

Jane: Yeah, that’s really beautiful. Thank you. Chris, thank you very, very much. And thank all of you so much for being on tonight. I hope you all come back next month, February 12^th.

SADO CIRCLE LIVE #73

FEBRUARY 12, 2026

Lynn: We call upon the unseen forces that have surrounded this group to strengthen our bond and protect us in our flight. We ask that our vibration be raised to the level needed to receive clear and meaningful communication. We ask that we are guided to the next step in our journey to discovery. We ask this in God’s name.

We are thankful to be chosen for this honor. Your guidance and goodness is appreciated. We feel your love as you walk us through the many questions we have about this life. Your presence is felt in our hearts, heard in our bodies and embraced in our souls. Amen.

Chris: Thank you. Okay, as Jane just said, SADO puts their stamp of approval on everything, and they did it on this too, and I didn’t know about it. What I’m going to do is, I’ll give you just a real quick recap from what we’ve done over the last couple months so that we kind of have a starting place. I don’t want to take up a whole lot of time.

What happened for me is I got assigned a project from my guidance, and it was channeling 12 spirit voices. I asked them each of them nine questions, and then I posted it to my Facebook page. I have my Facebook page on there if you haven’t had an opportunity to read them. I would highly suggest if you’d like, not because they’re mine, but they had wonderful things to say and so my Facebook page is there, and you can read them all in order.

What happened when I wrote these up and I posted them on my Facebook page to what I thought was going to be for my email list and my Facebook people. Jane called me or texted me right before the January meeting and asked if I had something to share? I said “nope”. And she says, “Are you sure?”

What I have discovered is, yes, it was my guidance who gave me this idea, this project to work on, but what has happened is this is a blending of the Spirit voices that I heard, that I channeled, that gave wonderful information from a spirit/ loved one perspective, but it blends with everything that SADO has given us.

In the following month, I realized there were insights that I was getting that just made sense of all the information that was gathered together, and so those insights are what we have been discussing.

As I have been working on this, it’s not just the insights that I received from my spirits that I channeled, but I also realized that the topics that they discussed funneled down into the topics in SADO’s book. And that was no surprise. But this was part of the blending of all of the information from the spirit/loved ones and from SADO’s wisdom. So, we have a list of the spirit insights. What I would really like to do is I have some questions that relate to these insights, and I would love to be able to open it up to everyone. That’s why we said last month if people come in late, it’s okay because it’s not going to be an interruption. It’s going to be an interaction with all of us. Before we start those questions, though, these are the insights.

(Spirit Loved Ones) Their answers are in relation to our living, or healing, our growing.
(Love) They all express love as the epitome of our existence and connection.

That was the first two that we got through last month. And so we’re going to zip right through this so we’re not doing this all year.

What I would really like is, if you are willing, I have a little, kind of a grounding meditation. If you wouldn’t mind; it’s not big. If you would be willing to just listen; you don’t have to do anything.

“As we gather in this circle of presence, we enter with open hearts, curious spirits and gentle breath. All of the voices you’ll hear and discuss today are more than memories. They are messengers of love, still alive in another form. Let us make this a space of listening, reflection and sacred remembering.

Let’s begin by arriving, and let’s talk about feeling your body right here in this moment. Let your hands rest. Let your shoulders soften. Let your breath find its own gentle rhythm, inhale, exhale. Now with the next breath, imagine you’re breathing in the scent of something sacred to you – a flower, a season, a memory. Breathe that in and let it open something inside of you.

Now, imagine a thread soft and shimmering running from your heart to the heart of someone you love who now walks in spirit. Let them be close, no pressure, no need, just presence.

And now, as we begin say silently or aloud, “I am open,

I am listening, I am loved, I am not alone and so let’s enter this space together.”

Okay, thank you. I hope that helped us move into a moment of presence. Because what I would encourage you to do is, if you’d like, to just unmute yourselves, unless you’ve got some kind of motors in your bedroom or something. You’re welcome to unmute if you’d like because I would hope that we could do this in an interactive way, rather than just me talking the whole time. Yes, I will share some of the comments of some of the spirit/loved ones that I talked with and I would hope that you would share your experiences too.

Jane, why don’t we go ahead and put up the next insight.

(Energy) They are not only “supportive” from our perspective but know support from them is not the same as in their physical life. They are supporting their loved one’s hearts.

As I said, we got through the first two, and this is #3 and the blue in parenthesis (subject) is the subject of the SADO book and they’re all broken down into those subjects according to the spirit/ loved ones’ insights.

This one is that they are not only supportive from our perspective, but we know the support that is not the same that they offered us in their physical life. They are supporting their loved ones’ hearts now from the other side of the veil, and so this is about support redefined.

It is speaking about energy and understanding energy, we have to recognize that they are no longer the person that we loved and had a relationship here in this physical life, and if they are energy… they’re going to be a lot of different things about the relationship that we have with them now. Support is one of the biggies.

What we may have been used to is the physicalness of them, the hugs, the conversations, the leaving notes for each other; the supporting you in any of your endeavors. Now we don’t have that, so we have to look at “How is my energetic loved one now supporting me?”

The first question that I’d like to kind of talk about is:

What does support from spirit feel like to you as opposed to what we were used to when they were in the physical?

Anna, you just unmuted yourself or did you have a comment?

Anna: Oh, did I unmute myself? Not really, but I would say myself that it is constant more than periodic.

Chris: Absolutely. Yeah, yeah. I totally agree. That was one of the first things my son said after he passed is “We used to have calls on Sunday night. Now I can be with you 24/7.”

And that’s true.

Does anyone else feel differently about the support they receive from their loved ones? Or how do you recognize it?

Doreen: I would like to answer that. My husband died 15 years ago. He was a very strong personality, very dominating, very controlling. I did not have many conversations with him because he was always “right”. Since he died, he has been with me a lot, especially the first ten years, but his energy now was a very sweet energy, the energy of the person I knew he could be. I’ve joked many, many times that I’ve had more conversations with him since he’s passed since I did in the 35 years, I was with him before that. After listening while transcribing last month, I sat and I was thinking about it, I realized his energy absolutely changed into a very sweet, very protective… he was always protective, but totally much more positive energy.

Chris: Oh, I’m so glad, and I’m so I’m so glad that you experienced that because so many times we hold resentments, we hold anger and that ruins our continuing life here, but knowing that they are not that same personality… I mean they take some of their personality traits with them so that we identify them, but they are not the ego. They are the spirit and like this support redefined is they’re working heart to heart now. They’re not working from their emotions meant fed by their mental mind.

I’m so glad. that’s really good. Anybody else want to talk about how Spirit is different with them and their support?

How has your understanding of being supported changed, though, since a loss that you’ve had? Has your understanding changed about how they are supporting you?

I think Doreen just gave us a really good example.

What kind of heart support do you think your loved ones offer you now?

Jane: So, Chris, I have a good friend whose dad died very suddenly. He had perfect health, and he just dropped over, that was it. She’s having a hard time connecting, feeling like she’s still connected with him. The other day she called and she was just very, very, very upset, and said, “I don’t think he’s with me. I can’t figure this out. Does he not love me anymore?” And you know some of that.

I said, “Well, how would you know? How would you know that he’s with you?” She said, “Well, I don’t think he’s with me. I don’t hear him.” I said, “What might happen?” Anyways, she said, “If he really loved me, he’d make sure that there was a parking place close to the door” because it was in torrential rain. Sure enough, she texted me 10 minutes later and said, “I have a parking place right by the door. My dad does love me.” So, my heart was like, “Oh, God, what would have happened if there wouldn’t have been a parking place there. How could we have gone through that?” One of the things that we talked about later was – yeah, there’s a parking place by the door, but it’s because he knows how important that was for you. If there would have been somebody else that parking place would have meant even more to them than it would have to you, that’s where that would go. I would say that the answer to your questions in my brain is, well, two questions. The one is: there’s a knowingness with my loved ones who are across the veil that they didn’t show when they were here. I don’t know that they didn’t know. I won’t know until I get there. But there’s a knowingness as to what it is that I do need to learn. There’s a setup of what happens for me that they have that long term vision as opposed to something that I might say, “If there aren’t leaves on the tree tomorrow, then nobody loves me”. Yeah, but there seems to be a knowingness.

One of the other questions that I have about this particular one, and hopefully you can address it and maybe you’re going to in your own questions is, “But how do we support them? How do we support them differently?” They don’t need it probably, but there’s reciprocity in some of us the way we were raised. And so, how do we do that?

Chris: Well, there’s reciprocity in energy and we may not recognize that’s what’s going on right now in the physical.

When we have that reciprocity-type relationship between our spirits, when we are grateful to them, for them showing up, or for them remaining with them with us, or supporting us, or whatever. That’s what encourages them. When they recognize that we recognize that they’re there and they’re still with us, then of course, they’re going to bring us more parking places, but it’s going to go beyond that. It’s going to go much beyond the parking places when they recognize that we see our relationship differently from just our physical relationship back and forth.

Bill, who was the first spirit, loved one that I spoke to, he had just passed a couple months before this happened, and so he called himself the “newbie spirit”. One of the things he talked about when talking about the support from our perspective and from theirs, he says, “Don’t look at me with your mind. That was recognition on the previous part, but you will not gather, understand or experience the new presence, mentally functioning, but activating a heart experience.”

They want us to have this energetic relationship between us, because, yes, you’ll be a little bit further ahead once we cross that veil. We’ll understand because we will have been communicating with them, but they want us not to expect that we will have that same kind of relationship that we had with them here. And does that? Does that…?

Jane: Yeah, what I hear you talking about is trust too. When they know that we trust that it’s them, that they are there with us. I think that’s probably the thing that I’ve seen mostly with people that I’ve worked with is that when they actually form that trust that the person is there, they don’t have to prove it with parking places and things anymore.

Chris: Yeah, because when we’re first grieving over the loss of a loved one, we might have read about the coins and the feathers and the birds and those things that we might find in a parking lot or something like that, and we get all excited about it, but we don’t move beyond that. We just say, “Oh, it was a sign, it was a sign”, and get excited about it and move on to planning dinner instead of recognizing “that’s part of my new relationship, and I know that that was them, and so I will thank them, and I will expect more because I will keep giving more.” It is built on the foundation of trust.

Thank you, Jane, yeah, that was good. Please anybody just speak up if you have something.

I was going to read another one from Amanda, who was five and a half when she passed. Again, this is about Christmas. She was talking about “How would you like to share your holiday season?” And she said, “Celebrate, celebrate, celebrate. Let your heart feel the love that may have been hidden for reasons of sadness, depression, grief, anger or melancholy. Let your heart feel.”

That is what Jane was just talking about. The problem may be that we’re overcome with our other feelings to allow our heart to open up and trust what we’re actually experiencing.

Do you want to put that up, Jane, and we’ll go on to the next energy insight?

(Energy) They are speaking for so many spirits – similar ideas, understanding, information, they want us to know. It was no accident in the number of voices, the number in which they spoke, which order it was necessary for them to speak to be seen by who needed to be exposed to what they said.

This is about Intentional Timing and Voice Order.

They’re speaking for so many spirits, and they all have similar ideas and understanding and information that they want us to know. But it was not an accident that the number of voices came in 12; that there were 12 insights; the order in which they spoke, who decided to speak. These were not loved ones of mine except the one that was Uncle Joe and he passed when I was five years old so I don’t remember him. He had a specific reason for coming and that comes in a little later. The intentional timing and voice order was also under one of SADO’s subjects of “Energy”. The order and the number of the voices was not accidental. Each was timed and it was placed. One of the quotes was, “We spoke in the order that we did because someone needed to hear one voice before they could receive the next. It was a symphony, not a sequence.”

It was really interesting the comments that I got too from several people: “I really love this. I’m looking forward to this” and then they heard the next voice, and it built on the information that they were given. Spirit knows, all of these spirits knew, just like SADO does. We’ve heard in these meetings how SADO says they present information because our guidance team was there, and they gave us information that they knew we, who was present in the meeting could use and needed to know. That’s exactly what they were doing too. They were offering information that, although none of these people I knew were attached to a loved one here. They had information that would also help a whole lot of other people with the information that they shared.

So is that a long, roundabout way of saying that Spirit knows a whole lot more than we do, and we’ve also heard that in our SADO meetings that SADO knew exactly what we needed here tonight. Spirit knows.

Jane: Not only do they know, Chris, but they orchestrate the foundation. They orchestrate it. We’ve seen it. Wendy’s seen it. Diane. Kay. You know everybody who’s worked on these transcripts – they see that they’ll give us a little bit of information, and then they’ll go around and talk about something else. Then the next month or two months or year, then they’ll build on that information that we had. For a while, it was like, “Oh, they changed what they were saying before. Now they’re saying something different.” But when you go back and look at it, they’re not saying anything different. They just gave us as much as we could take in during that particular time and then came back around to it after that foundation had grown and solidified in a way that would support more of that information.

Chris: Exactly, exactly. Has anybody else experienced that? Those of you who have continued attending the SADO meetings and experienced exactly what Jane has talked about. The increased amount of information that they give us is just building on what we’ve already learned, but it is because we have progressed to be able to understand more.

I know I have. I can remember those early, early meetings, and we were asking fairly youthful questions. SADO was very patient with us in building on the information that we had and that they would share, and they would continue to share more as we learned more.

Does this resonate with anybody?

Wendy: Well, it certainly resonates with me. I haven’t been in the SADO group for that long, but just when I look back on the six or seven years since all this awareness began, if I had been hit six or seven years ago with what I get hit with now, I think I’d probably explode. You need to sort of start slowly, and I think you only get what you’re able to absorb at any one time.

Chris: And that’s exactly I think what Jane talked about – the experiencing divine timing and divine orchestration and divine intention, that’s what it’s all about. They know, they know what we need, and they know the timing. We may not, but they certainly do.

Jane: Excuse me, Chris and one of the other things is that at this point in time, they just ignore us. If there’s something that we want to know, and they’ve either already given us the information, or it’s not relevant to what’s going on or not helpful, they’re just quiet. That’s the other thing. They know what’s in there. And sometimes it’s like, “figure it out yourself. We’ve already given you all this information”, which is where the books come in to play, I think, where you know they’re going to say, We’ve given you 10 years, 11 years now of information, you’re going to have the ability to look it up” because that’s the reason why they set up these books, kind of as reference material for us to be able to kind of look at that.

Diane: I was going to say that for us, for me anyway, when we review the information for SADO, we’re making these chapters, but often when we’re reading the material because we read it together, and we kind of try to make sense of all that and create those chapters, sometimes we read things and I think it’s so appropriate to what I’m living now, even though it has nothing to do with; it’s not that I’m looking for specific information. It just happens that the flow of it just happens to give me information on things that are appropriate for me now, and it just happens that way. I think they understand what we need and it’s given to us in all different ways.

Chris: Thank you. I was just going to ask about other people’s experiences with divine intervention and divine timing and divine intention. That’s exactly right; they do know. They know what we need. We may not, but they do, and they know the time.

Some of the comments that they shared according to the divine timing, and that was:

What do you see or feel when your loved one remembers you or grieves you during the holidays?

“We want them to wake up to more of their life. As difficult as it may be, open up that little heart and abundant joy can enter.”

He was talking about the time. That’s what I was talking about with Uncle Joe, is the time. He’s been there for 70 years. You don’t lose your connection with time at all. They’re still involved with you and they’re still helping you in these situations like Diane was just talking about.

Does anybody else resonate with that? A situation that where they know that Spirit helped them.

Beth: Hey, It’s Beth. Yeah, I resonate with everything that’s being shared. I’m fully aware and have been fully aware that there’s not a physical presence after I take my last breath, but that there’s an energy. There is a spark. I don’t say that dismissively, that after my initial shock that my son could die on me. When going through my early grief, I have been nurtured by him that I remember a few times at the very beginning when I stopped picking up feathers…

I mean I have enough feathers to make a few pillows.

It’s not a language that we speak, but I had to learn how to speak, how to think in the way I think my son would be able to feel me and through all of you guys and other wise souls who are going through deep loss, is there’s a softening that I knew would happen to other people. I didn’t think it would happen to me. I am walking and have been for a while in the softness of knowing that we don’t get out of this life alive, and I’m not going to carry all my human burdens with me. Sean is reminding me, “You don’t need that stuff. Mom, I am fine”. And probably the title of my book, I’ve said this in other circles is that he gives me this mantra over and over and over, “Find me in the lights. Find me in the lights. Find me in the lights.”

My picking that apart simply means all we need is one spark that illuminates, and that’s what this human being mother has chosen that direction. I don’t need anymore…I don’t need concrete proof – using the parking spot, he would laugh going “Seriously, is that all you want from me, Mom, is a parking spot?” No, because this mother wants the deeper, spiritual, soulful connections. I’ve had to go and lean into that in order to get that result, if that makes sense, and it has not let me down because the word “expectation” has been dropped from my peripherals.

Do I want? Absolutely. Do I need? No. I’m being taken care of. I do have that support of spirit. I do have that support in human form and in tangible form, and definitely from my family members who are on the other side.

Beanie: I wanted to say that it’s been 10 years, just over 10 years since Pete was killed in Afghanistan. There are times when I know he’s around. Initially, he would touch the top of my head, and then with the circle that I do with a trance medium, I have recordings of him but I just don’t have happening what I hear other people are saying. I mean, I just don’t. I accept that he’s around me all the time, but I am not really aware of it. I told you, I think it was two months ago, I had that experience the next day with the horn honking in my car, and it was the first time I really felt my dad around me. I don’t know if there’s more that I need to be doing to be more aware of it.

And, in terms of them, and this may be another topic of it, in terms of them knowing what we need. So, through the trance medium and speaking with my guides what I have become aware of over the last 10 years is I don’t always get what I’m asking for because what I’m here to do is learn, and sometimes it’s really hard. The lessons are really hard. I don’t know if I’m just not at a place where I’ve worked out enough of my lessons that I can be more aware of my guides and of my family members being around me.

Beth, how many years did it take for you to come to really be able to hear your son that clearly?

Beth: Thank you for that question. This is the month that it’ll be 22 years since Sean’s accident. How long did it take? There’s not really. I wish I could give you hard facts. My language to my son doesn’t require hard facts. For me, it’s a language that…I don’t, I never have, I’ve never I well, I don’t even know how to finish that sentence. Let me reframe here.

Beanie: By the way, my light just got really bright in the room. Now sometimes we do have funky electrical things going on in a very old house, but you know, coincidentally, it just got really bright.

Beth: Well, I’m going to say thank you to our boys. “My mom’s trying, she’s trying to get the words out.”

The density that I feel in my communication to Sean can be so heavy that I just feel. I go into the personality that I knew of this 19-year-old boy, and the thing, his quirkiness, his kindness, and that’s all I have. That’s all you have of your son right now is those locked-in moments of remembrance. Same with me with Sean.

I just knew I was, and I’m speaking to the choir, I knew I needed to find him. I knew that he was somewhere. I wanted to know where he was, and I just would just surrender, literally, like, “Okay, you got to help me through this.”

When did that happen? Probably, I started to change about 18 months after his death. I’m going to rat myself out. That was also the time that I was fully aware that drinking had escalated because I did not want to feel. I wanted the edges to soften, and all I was finding is I was staying depressed. I was staying in deep sadness, and I was getting fat. I needed to change. Then I heard through other mediums and other avenues “what would happen if you started working on your vibration, on letting go of the necessary things that tie you down to being this earth mom?”

I write about this, and I say this, “Spirit is not going to give me an assignment that I’ve been asking for with not knowing what it is, unless I get my shit together.”

And my son laughs at that. He goes, “We’re doing this together, Mom.” I don’t hear words. I just go back to the remembrance of who I knew Sean was. I probably romanced the heck out of it. He’s probably embarrassed that I talk so lovingly and boldly about that. But no one can take that story away from me. I get to sit in that, and it’s not a bad place to sit. I didn’t answer your question.

Beanie: Yeah, you kind of did for sure. I think it gives me some, for lack of a better word or term, “grist for the mill” to look at maybe more of the work that I might need to do or asking for more help on hearing or intuiting in my heart what I’m hearing intuitively, if that makes sense.

Beth: Just one last thing. And is it Beanie? My therapist way back when, said, “What would Sean be doing if he were still alive?” And of course, that was a burst into tears moment. I don’t know, I didn’t ask him all the questions I wanted to ask and I didn’t have enough time. And she says, “Why don’t you write him a letter and ask him?

That became therapeutic for me and I think Sean came through pen and paper in “Dear Mom” letters.

“Dear Mom” and I just wrote. He walked me through. I wrote before he before the cars collided and before they made contact. He wrote with me, writing, answering my letter just exactly what had happened, and he was at peace. Everything stopped in God’s light. Everything stopped.

“They knew that I would be not returning. They would be returning, but they’ll have to live with this.”

And he was drinking and driving, and Sean would have to live with this and his story. Your son’s story is part of what you get to share with humanity. Where did your son guide you to with his guides and his spirit? And I don’t think you need to keep doing, doing, doing. I think maybe just the softening of it, “I’m going to let experience seep into my pores, and I trust that my son is going to be the person that’s going to guide that.”

That’s my thought.

Beanie: Thank you.

Beth: I think you’re doing remarkably well, and I don’t even know you.

Jane: Chris, can I jump in for just one second?

Beth, you did answer an incredible question here. You were so eloquent in giving the information, and it breaks down to Beanie’s question of when, and your answer as to “what”. That’s what I hear you saying, and that is the pinnacle of your incredible story; is the “what”. I’m just so touched. Thank you so much for sharing that with me, and with all of us. Just beautiful.

Beth: Thank you.

Bobby: I just wanted to chime in a little bit too.

My son, Jared, crossed over or passed into spirit 11 years ago. He came to me the day after his funeral. He was so persistent. He just kept coming to me. He first was coming to me as a hawk because Jared knew that my spirit animal was the hawk, and he just kept coming. I’ve always been spiritual, not religious.

Then probably about a month later, he started setting off the alarm in our house every night about 2:30 and I would jump up out of bed, turn on the code and it always said, “Jared’s bedroom window” and I knew it was him the whole time. I knew where he was, and I knew that he was okay, and my belief is that he knew that I wasn’t okay. I was completely broken. I think the thing for me was I had been a control freak for all 60 years of my life. After he passed, I came to realize that control is an illusion. It doesn’t exist. I was trusting that it was him, and I was trusting that he was coming to help me. There was nothing more I could do to help him so I just gave into it. I gave up all control, and I accepted that he wasn’t coming back. That was the hardest thing for me to accept, but I knew that he was trying to help me.

So, I gave up the illusion of control probably within a couple of days because I knew that I had lost all control, and that thinking that I was in control of things was helping me to go where I am. It also helped me to realize that…my dad and I had been in business together and he died early into that. And it was like I used to say he was pulling strings like a puppet because everything started coming together within a year after he passed. But I still believed that I was in control of everything.

Through Jared’s passing, I realized that there was no control; that I needed to give in, and I needed to accept help and guidance. That was probably one of the hardest things for me to do. I think for me, it was to give up the idea that I could control the outcome of anything.

I just have to trust that universe, spirit, whatever is going to give me what I need when I need it. It really helped me a lot. I go on road trips all the time, and I kind of have a destination of where I’m going to end up, but I just trust that Spirit, Jared, whatever is going to guide me to where I need to go and see the things that I need to see.

So, I don’t know. For me, it was hard to give up control, and I think it was through Jared’s passing that I was able to do that. I don’t let the outside noise or influence of the news, what’s going on in the world, or whatever, control what’s going on with me. I just accept that I can only do the things that I do and just accept them. I know that Jared is with me all the time. I learned to say thank you a lot, and that was very important to me. I don’t know if that helps you at all, but I do know that control or expectations just don’t work. We have to accept what it is that we’re given. But I can feel his energy around me all the time. Anyway, thank you for letting me ramble on.

Chris: Absolutely. That’s what this is all about.

Beanie, did that help? I mean, I’m sure it did. I don’t even have to ask. You’ve really gotten into yourself, and you went down into your heart as they were talking. It was so obvious. I think that’s what this is all about. That’s why I was hoping that we’d get some interaction here and people talking about their experiences.

You asked a question that led right into the next insight, and Bobby and Beth just added to exactly what the next one was. So, if anybody else has a response to this one…this one is all about when something is stated by one voice to their family member, but it can also be a message to many others. That’s exactly what we’re doing here; we’re sharing. That’s what SADO has done. SADO has shared information. SADO may be speaking directly to one person, but the message settles in many people’s hearts of understanding. I guess we’ve got an example right here.

(Energy) When something is stated by one voice to their family member, it can also be a message for many other readers.

The question is, “Has a message meant for someone else resonated deeply with you?” I think we all sat here and listened to three stories. You may not be in exactly the same situation, but I would imagine that you might have resonated with some of their words and some of their experiences in their life and their journey at this point.

Did that resonate with anybody else, not just because it was their child that passed. Does that resonate with anybody else’s life experience?

Lynn: Well, I think SADO’s book is called Awakening. I think there’s a moment in everybody’s life that’s on the spiritual path that you’re not walking blindsided down the sidewalk anymore. There is a jolt, an awakening, awakening you up to more; to be asking, that there’s got to be more and what is it? Then some people take the advantage of that awakening to move forward. Some people have to be blindsided a couple more times before they get it.

Jane: I was just going to say that was a great summary of kind of where we are tonight and being able to bring all these insights in that Chris has been given and it was great. We will continue this process to be able to get more and more of this information as we go on.

I just wanted to thank everybody so much for being here this evening, and for providing such love and care to each other and such incredible support that that you all have been able to give to everybody. I hope that you can take these words, and Chris has in the chat where these are actually listed, but we will continue on with going through this and going over this information as we go through the Spring of this year and be able to really to look at that. So, thank you all so much for coming tonight. It was wonderful to have you. Again, bless you all for helping each other because that’s what this has all been about. So, thank you very, very much. And Chris, thank you very much for what you’ve provided for us.

Chris: Just let you all know that I put this information on my Facebook page in that’s because that’s where everything is. I just invite you to check it out, because, as I’ve said, I love these spirits. They’re my family, and I’ve learned so much from them.

As we were just talking, they shared so much that was not just for their family members. It’s for all of us, and they’re in order. They started in December because I did it for the holiday season. They all have different messages, but they all funnel down to love and we’re all the same. We’re all here to help each other. I invite you to check that out. It’s wonderful messages. Thank you for all the wonderful messages and information you all shared tonight. I love when we’re able to share with each other and share in each other’s healings.

Jane: I think the discussion is so wonderful. It’s so great too. You know, being able to discuss with each other, and that’s been so meaningful to do that. Speaking of discussions, we will have our next book group on the following Saturday, so we welcome all of you to come. We’re still on Chapter One, but we will be continuing to work on that on the 21st, at 11 am Eastern.

SADO CIRCLE LIVE #74

MARCH 12, 2026

Chris: I have another kind of a grounding that I have liked doing the last couple of meetings, but I really love the prayer that we’ve always done because that brings us all, pulls our energy together, because of the familiarity of it.

Okay, this is going to be the continuation. I think all of you have been here before so I don’t really want to go through all of that before. But as Jane said this is a project that I thought my guidance was giving me to do in November and it turned out a whole lot bigger than what I thought. It was 12 spirits who came to me. I asked them 9 questions each the same question – it was, at the time, focused on Christmas and in the Spirit’s view of Christmas, and our relationship with Christmas, and our relationship with each other there and here. What I discovered as I was going on, and it’s like the book, we discover a whole lot more that we thought we knew, but it just keeps growing with our learning. That’s what happened with this project, that it was not just the conversations with them and what they were sharing about how to heal through our Christmas and through our relationships with our spirit loved ones, but I realized that there were spirit insights that flowed through all of the conversations. I then realized that it flowed through all of what SADO has been teaching us for all of these years. And so, that was one project over here that was not just about Christmas, but it was with our spirit loved ones from their perspective, but we also have the connection with all of the wisdom from SADO, and that’s what’s been blending here for the last few months. It’s not it was my spirit, like I said, just my spirit guidance team that I thought led me, but then SADO has been blending the wisdom that they have been giving us for all these years. And like Jane said you can see this is my way of using the book. I only got through this last night, and there was so much in it. I’ve got to repeat some of the things that Jane said about this book. You open it up, and the energy is just love.

I wanted to work on what I’m doing right now, but I had a hard time because I kept wanting to read this, and I jump around, and I’d find something else. And then another idea came out about what they might have said 10 years ago, and so I wanted to jump here. It doesn’t just hook you and connect you, but it moves you from one piece of learning to another. That’s why when they say on page six, the very beginning was, “At this time there would be 12 in SADO working with this group, but we are all One”, and that’s the message of what we’re doing here. We are all One. SADO is all One. We are all part of SADO. We are all learning. I think that’s the overall umbrella of what we’re going to be talking about today is all these different pieces of recognizing how we are, not just this group in discussing these insights, but we are all One of the One.

So, let’s go ahead and this is just a real short, little balancing presence. It’s just a short meditation, and you don’t have to do anything, just listen, and get comfortable.

As we gather in this circle of presence, we enter with open hearts, curious spirits and gentle breath. The voices you’ll hear today are more than memories, they are messengers of love, still alive in another form. Let this be a space of listening, reflection and sacred remembering.

So, let’s begin by arriving. Feel your body right here in this moment, let your hands rest, let your shoulders soften, let your breath find its own gentle rhythm, inhale…exhale.

Now with your next breath, imagine you’re breathing in the scent of something very sacred to you, a flower, a season, a memory. Breathe it in and let it open something inside of you.

Now imagine a thread, soft and shimmering running from your heart to the heart of someone you love who now walks in spirit.

Let them be close, no pressure, no need, just presence. And now as we begin say silently or aloud, I am open, I am listening, I am loved, and I’m not alone. So, let’s enter this presence together.

Thank you. Wow. I love that it looked like you liked it too. I’m so glad.

Okay, the first couple of meetings we got through the first one, we got through two of the insights. That was in January. In February, we got through three. We have up to 12 so we have several to go through. We’re just going to get through as many as we can, depending on what we all talk about. And, if you remember, this is not hopefully just me talking. I interviewed the spirits, yes, and I wrote them down, and I put them on Facebook, but you are the ones who are going to be interacting with them, and we’re going to have questions that relate to the insights. I would hope that we all interact with each other, and this group has been sharing so wonderfully their hearts are coming here and opening up.

So, I’m hoping that you’re allowing that to happen again tonight.

Okay, the Insight #6 Energy. Energy means that is under the category of energy in SADO’s book, and then the message underneath is the insight that I recognized as I was moving through these conversations. The insight with this one, Uncle Joe’s message, was never necessary before, but now it’s important to share with many readers and teaching about time and timing in a variety of methods, methods and understandings. This insight is about timing and readiness.

Now I want to backup just a minute because of the 12 spirit loved ones that I spoke to, Uncle Joe was the only one that I knew. All of them were unknown to me, who they were, where they were from, or any of that. Uncle Joe was my uncle who crossed over when I was five years old. I didn’t know him very well. He was in a wheelchair with muscular dystrophy and he kind of scared me. So, I was not close to him. The first mediumship reading that I received after Zac passed, 25 years ago, he was described as being present, but he didn’t speak. So, in essence, I haven’t had any conversations with him or any contact with him for 70 years. I don’t know him as my uncle but he was a great teacher for this insight. It turned out to be a fairly large one because a lot of us have difficulties from our perspective about time and timing on the other side and timing here in this life. Like I said, this is about timing and readiness, and let’s see Uncle Joe said… He said, “You know, time doesn’t matter. Here I have been and always will be able to visit anytime, any holiday. We experience holidays through love, not change or tradition. Love is what continues the connection, not time.” And another thing he said is, “All that occurred in your physical living is not the sum total of who you are or can be. Love isn’t a construct, but it’s the breath, then it’s the energy that fills you. It moves through everything. It transcends life and death, physical and spiritual forms and time barriers. That’s why time doesn’t separate us.”

And so, the questions that we have here are:

Why is it that Spirit, he waited 70 years, why would he have come now?

What would be the reason that a Spirit would wait and come visit now and share whatever it is that he had to share?

Why, in your experience, would you think Spirit might wait to speak with us or to share messages?

Chris: Does anybody have ideas as to what might be the motivation?

Diana: I would guess that we’re not ready to receive. I mean, they’re coming. It may not be on their end. It may be on our end of not learning and the ability to receive, whether it’s through grief or belief or whatever. So, not necessarily that they wait to speak as much as we’re willing to be open at the time.

Chris: Exactly, exactly.

And why is this book coming out right now? You know, sure, there are mechanics involved in it, but a lot of people wouldn’t have been ready 10 years ago. I think back about the four of us when we started it. We certainly couldn’t have written a book then because we weren’t ready and there were a lot of people out there, the world was not ready for it.

Jane: So, Chris, while people are thinking, can I be devil’s advocate to ask a question?

Chris: Absolutely.

Jane: So, how do you know that Uncle Joe wasn’t communicating with you before he announced himself?

Chris: You know, he very well may have been, and I was not in tune with his energy at that time.

Jane: So, that piggybacks on what Diana said, isn’t it, that sometimes it’s not about, may not be about them being ready; it may be us being ready. You talked about “why did SADO come through when they did?” It was because, I think, of the people in that room that night, and we had not been together in that way before. We had been at conferences together, of course, but we had not been together in that way before. And so, was it SADO that was waiting or were they waiting for us to blend our energies?

And Judy has her hand up Chris.

Judy: In addition to what was already stated. I apologize. I don’t see the one who said it. The aspect would be to avoid altering, interfering what might be our direction or our learning curve until we’re or I’ll put it in addition to what was already said, to avoid interfering or affecting something that might be meant on our timeline until we’re ready. So, you could also add that part too, that they don’t just come through and give us all this advice whether we’re ready to hear or not.

Chris: Exactly, yeah, yeah.

And we remember that it’s not that they are so much brighter than us, so much wiser and all that. They have experienced an earth suit life. They have experienced that, but they’ve also experienced what it’s like at Home. And so, they know. You know they know our life plans. They know what we are supposed to be learning. So, you know they’re more apt to not interfere with something that we’re not ready for or we’re not ready to understand or to learn.

Jane: Chris, what do you think about those who are shocked by hearing their loved one or feeling a touch by their loved one? Does that shock indicate a “not the right time?” Is that possible? What do you think?

Chris: I think it depends. You know, we’re talking a spirit, loved one, somebody has passed. So, we’re in grieving. I think it depends. It’s been my experience that it depends on how far a person has moved in their spiritual journey. Spiritual journey meaning what we’re learning in the Awakening book, our spirituality of who we are, and that bottom line that they still exist, that they’re still with us. When we can accept that, I don’t think people are in that much shock because we’re looking for that. We’re looking for some kind of connection with them. If you get touched on the shoulder or something like that, I think if a person is more in line with that understanding that it’s possible, then I don’t think they are as shocked. That shock is not the reaction if they’re looking for it, and they’re believing in it, and they’re moving from their head to their heart to understanding it. Did that answer that, Jane?

Jane: Yeah, that’s great. That’s perfect, thank you.

Diana: What about the other side where maybe they are not ready, they have some healing to do themselves? They’re learning about the communication and all. I mean, does it come naturally for them when they cross over? I would think that they have some lower vibrations to heal and everything because they don’t want to put that back on us. Do you understand what I’m saying?

Chris: Yeah.

Diana: Because a lot of times you hear apologies or something through that to where maybe they have not accepted, or have gone through the transition to where they realize that they need to be healed as well before they connect? Yes or no?

Chris: I don’t know. Well, it’s just not kind of a yes or no. What I’ve experienced in connecting with people or hearing what they’re crossing over story is like, explaining that to me, it’s not always that they can communicate when they first move into that living because it is different. We have to allow for the ego to stay here. Often if it’s a dementia problem or something like that, they have to go into a convalescence and so that may take time, according to here. We don’t know if it’s going to be three weeks for them to stay in their what I saw was like a Red Cross post, building of convalescing.

But yeah, sometimes they do, you know, it does take some time, according to our calendar here for them to be able to communicate with us. But that doesn’t take away our responsibility from, if we want to, it’s our responsibility to help create this two-way conversation.

So, if this is timing, and we’re talking about them communicating with us or, like Jane said, and not being shocked with it, how is it that this is divine timing, or divine interaction, or a divine orchestration? How do you see that showing up in your life? Have you had any experiences of divine timing, orchestration or intervention? Can you remember a situation?

Bobby: I think when you get to a point that you believe, and it becomes a knowing and you have trust that what’s supposed to come up or supposed to happen, or where you’re supposed to be, or whatever, or somebody’s supposed to come into your life, that you just trust it, and that to me, would be divine timing.

I also had a question with the last one, because for Spirit there is no time. So, you know and I know that Jared came to me a week after he passed. I don’t believe he knew exactly how to communicate with me, but he came to me in a way that I would recognize it and acknowledge and know that it was him which helped me because, I believe, that he knew I was in a very bad place and that I needed him to get to me. As our time went on, he started communicating in other ways as he became more, I guess, familiar with the new language, and maybe I wasn’t ready to understand and take in all the new language because I think it’s harder for us to understand that language than it is for them. I believe that if you have trust, and it’s a knowing, it’s not just a belief, or maybe that’s true, or maybe I’m exaggerating, that Spirit comes to you with things that you need when you need them.

Chris: Absolutely, yeah, yeah.

Jane: And comes to you and comes to you and comes to you and comes to you and comes to you. If you don’t take it the first time, I think they come back.

Bobby: Oh, they do. Once you acknowledge that they were getting through to you, or say thank you, or whatever, as long as you acknowledge, then they know they can get to you in that manner and then they bring in new things and more things. And because I know it took me a while, like Chris mentions, to go from the head to the heart and start talking from the heart; that was probably part of my ego, I guess, that interfered with that. But I believe that what I call the bad parts of the ego for me died when Jared died. It opened my heart and I had a spiritual reawakening because that was something where I was at earlier in my life, and then life got in the way, and I kind of, I put on the blinders and did what life requires of us. I knew at that time where Jared was, that he was okay, and I believe that he knew that I wasn’t. He was coming to me and being my teacher where I had been his teacher for 24 years.

Jane: So, Chris, I’m going to interrupt one more time, and then I’ll try really hard to shut up. Bobby said two words that I think, well, he said a lot of words that are important, but he said two words that I want to make sure that nobody misses, and that is trust and acknowledge.

That is what I probably hear more often that creates more of a problem for most of the people that I work with than anything else. They don’t trust the information that they’re getting, and they can’t acknowledge it because they don’t trust it. So, when you come around to being able to trust and acknowledge, do you think – everybody, not just Bobby, I don’t want to pick on him, but do you think that is valuable as a lesson that will allow you to hear these teachings that Chris is talking about so much?

Bobby: I believe that those are very important because a lot of people don’t trust and they’re very skeptical, and skepticism is good in the beginning. You shouldn’t trust everything that you hear, but when it becomes a knowing with Spirit and you can trust it, I think that’s really the first step to communicating with Spirit.

Chris: Well, and then the other side of that is when we have preconceived ideas about how we’re going to hear from our spirit loved one. You hear about coins and feathers and the numbers, repeating numbers, those things, if you read them in a book or something, you come to expect that that’s what’s going to happen for you. That’s not how it’s going to be for everybody so it’s trusting that there might be something else out there that you might be missing so you trust what you’re observing, what you’re feeling and what you’re thinking at the time that something else might be happening. And like you were talking, Bobby, it is a process of trusting. It’s one experience after another that builds up the trust. It’s not the first day that I’m here and now I’m going to be healing. So, Jane, I’m glad you mentioned that because also when you acknowledge them, they recognize that you’re seeing what’s happening around them, and that maybe they’re feeling your energy, and so acknowledging gives them the permission to continue more interaction with you. So yeah, Bobby, those are great words to bring up. So, thank you. Thank you, Jane, for acknowledging them too.

So, does anybody else have examples of when divine timing has shown up in their lives? Oh, Doreen.

Doreen: Many years ago, I had an experience that I will never forget because it saved my life and my son’s life. He’s 36 now. He was probably about 3. I was driving and he was in the backseat. Driving down a regular road, and I’m not a fast driver, and I was just going my regular route. All of a sudden, this voice, loud and clear said, “slow down”. There was nobody else in the car, but I trusted it enough to slow down. There were no other cars and I could see straight ahead. There were no cars anywhere, but I trusted it. I slowed down, and thank God I did because a car came zooming out of their driveway. If I had been going any faster, I probably would be dead. My son would be dead. But I trusted that voice.

Chris: That is so wonderful, and of course, you’re going to remember this for the rest of your life. And so, by trusting that voice, you’re more likely to trust something else that happens for you. It may not be a voice; it may just be a knowing or it might be a smell that makes you slow down or reroute yourself. I have a friend – you’re talking that you were driving – and she was late for an appointment. She couldn’t find her keys, and she was so late for an appointment, and she got to, I think it was the gas station, and the gas station attendant told her that “there’s a fire on the freeway, maybe you shouldn’t go that way”, but by her not being able to find her keys and being late, she was able to turn around because she had to stop and get gas. We have different things like that that maybe we’re not even aware of, that is divine timing in action in our lives because we may not know what the outcome might have been had Spirit not intervened with our lives.

And the big one right now for us is SADO. We would not be where we are, none of us would be…the four of us originally, because they intervened and knew that we were ready at that time, we were able to start our development circle, and it grew to what this is. This is a huge example of divine timing and divine intervention for all of us to have grown from.

So, have you ever felt that a message came to you only when you were ready for it?

Does anyone else see that you received a message that before you might have missed the importance of it?

Beth: I can’t find the little icon to raise my hand. I really appreciate this conversation. I refuse not to believe that my son could reach out to me. I think it was my cushion for not wanting to implode on myself is that no one could tell me that he ceased to exist. On his stone, I even have “I still exist”, his name, I still exist. And I really hung on to that, but I didn’t even, I forgot about this. It was Steve Jobs who had said in one of his speeches that really hit my heart is something about being a dot collector. And that’s what I say often is if something stands out by itself, but it doesn’t make sense just kind of collect that as a dot because when we start connecting the dots, for me, down the road then it’s like, oh, my God, of course.

Real quick story, and I forgot about this until Doreen was talking about her car “slow down”. February 21, 2004 was the day my son died in a car accident, and he was living in Colorado. I was living in Hawaii so there’s a three-hour difference. I was on route to go to Kona airport to pick up two friends, a married couple. They were going to stay at our house for a few days and then go on to their Hawaiian vacation. I wanted to stop at Costco and get them leis before going to the airport. I ran into Costco, I opened up the trunk of my car, I laid my keys over the trunk of the car, on the inside and outside, put my flowers in there, and just as the trunk door was coming down, I realized my keys were half in the trunk and half outside the car. I looked at my watch, and it was about 3:20, something like that, and they were going to be landing within 15 minutes. I was stuck in the parking lot at Costco. I couldn’t get to the airport. Well, my husband, at that time, worked next door at Home Depot so I called him. He raced over with the spare keys, got my keys out of the trunk, went to the airport, successfully, picked up Tom and Amy. By the time we got home, it was 9:00/930pm our time, which, again in Colorado, is after midnight in Colorado. When the phone rang, and it was my ex-husband saying that there had been an accident and Sean was gone.

I remember so much, but I don’t remember finding the symbolism. But with your question, does divine timing show up? How does divine timing show up in your life? At the time my son did not get out of that accident alive was the same time that my keys were stuck and I could not get into my car. His vehicle was destroyed. His life is not the way it’s going to be. My keys. And I just looked at that symbolism. It took me a while to understand that, my God, I, your mother was stuck at the same time you were going through something I had no idea, and I’ve always looked at that, but I had forgotten about it. It’s been 22 plus years now that my refusal to believe that he ceased to exist and that Divine Messages come at the time that, they know me better than I know myself. They know when I have hit a low, hit a high, in a tranquil place, that’s the sliver, the opening, and that’s what I’ve chosen to believe. But I find it still, even at the day one that looking back and I choose to believe that “Mom, I got to give you a sign, and you’re not going to get it, you’re going to be destroyed.” But I was stuck at the same time that there was no return for him also. So, I beg anyone to differ with me. I romance that idea and that’s because it’s meaningful to me. It doesn’t have to be meaningful for anybody else, but it was meaningful for me and my healing, my going towards an understanding that truly our loved ones still exist, just not in the form that we wish they were.

Chris: Exactly.

Beth: But I say that too, and I’ll end with this. Who’s to say they’re not in the form that they’re supposed to be too? He doesn’t have to have a whole lot of this human experience that we’re still living through.

Chris: Exactly.

Beth: That’s what I have to say about it.

Chris: Thank you, Beth. You said you hadn’t thought about this for a lot of years, and so this was a time when you were able to put this together.

Diana: Yes, just one quick story that I want to share because my daughter passed when she was 17. She passed from a car accident, and she came through very early on. My husband was down in the basement about three months after she passed. She was out on a weekend. She was 17. She knew if she came and asked me to go out later, absolutely not. But she could go down the basement. Her dad would be watching TV, he’d be sleeping, and she could poke him in his belly and say, “Dad, can I go back out? And, oh yeah, okay.” Out she was. This is what happened: I ended up in the emergency room with him. But what had happened is that he was down the basement, listening, and she came through, he saw her like she was, the top part. She was poking him in the belly, and she came and woke him up. He came upstairs and within 30 minutes, he was in septic shock. I would have never heard him in the basement had that not happened. Had she not woken him up and, he even admitted that too, that she came and woke him up, he actually saw her as she was. I said, “Well, what did she look like” and stuff like that. So, she actually appeared very early on in that way, and like I said, basically saved his life because I would have never would have heard him. So that was definitely a divine intervention that we all needed at that time. Thank you.

Chris: Oh, well, thank you Diana. Appreciate that. Does anybody? Edwina?

Edwina: Yeah, sorry I didn’t put my hand up properly. As far as timing goes, the wonderful experience I had was that after my daughter died… and she had been a whitewater kayaker, and she also raised guide dogs as she was a volunteer raiser for puppies who became guide dogs when they grew up… so she was involved with labrador retrievers. Anyway, about a year after, that’s seven, eight months after she died, I decided that it was time for me to have a pet. I’d been petless for a while, and so I applied to Lab Rescue to adopt a puppy. They asked “Are you sure you want a puppy? You know you’re older and puppies are really very energetic.” I said, “Yeah, I really want a puppy”. And they said, “Well, you know, it takes a while to get puppies, you’d have to wait a while”. And I said, “Okay, I’ll wait”. And so, I waited about two months. And then finally I got a call that said we have some puppies. We have three puppies down in Richmond, Virginia which is couple hours away from me that were turned in they thought by a backyard breeder. Their guess was a backyard breeder had bred a litter of puppies and the ones that didn’t, they were, this is around Christmas, they would sell us Christmas puppies, and the leftovers got dumped at the shelter, but there were three of them anyway. They said we don’t know exactly when they’ll be ready, but if you still want one, we’ll give you a call when they’re ready. We’ve got to get them vetted and find a volunteer to go down and get them. I said, fine. So, several days later, I got a call that said the puppies will be ready tomorrow if you want one tomorrow. And I said yes. Well, tomorrow happened to be the one-year anniversary of my daughter’s death, and it is my very firm belief that she sent that puppy to me as a gift. I already had planned to name him Kayak in her honor, and he was a lab, partly because she had raised lab puppies. So, I firmly believe that he was a gift from her, that timing was just couldn’t have been engineered by any other than Spirit, I think. So that’s my story about divine timing.

Chris: And one that hits my heart knowing Kayak, sweet boy.

Chris: Thank you. Does anyone else have an experience of divine timing or divine orchestration happening in your life? I want to give anybody a chance if they have a situation that they recognize.

Jane: Chris, I think also the divine timing sometimes can come from, it doesn’t have to be a loved one in Spirit, it can be Spirit. It doesn’t have to be always what we would consider positive. It can be somebody who, you know falls and breaks a wrist, or somebody who falls and breaks a leg, or something like that. And for us, we may see that as being, oh, negative, negative, negative. But I’m not convinced that some of those medical happenings aren’t positive to perhaps get us to slow down, or get us to teach the physicians something that they need to know, or that it’s going to positively affect somebody else’s life, or it is going to give us the time that we need to adjust to a new situation or something like that. I believe that Spirit is there to help us to see this. This is all about the sentence that you read. It’s the fact that you know we’re all in Oneness, and so what happens to one of us happens to all of us, but in a different way. And we can learn from the experiences that other people have too.

Beth talked about being a dot collector. I love that, and that is something that I can certainly see so much with SADO of, well, here’s a dot, and then, you know, three weeks, three months, six months later, here’s another dot. Now you put those dots together, and that’s how this book came about. You know, these are all dots, and so I love that she’s attributing that certainly to perhaps a loved one that helped her hear that from somebody else’s speech, because it was so meaningful. It makes so much sense to me because it’s not just, “that loved one that we might have in Spirit”, but it can also be Spirit, who’s providing us with that information and those experiences, and then to get back again to acknowledging “thank you Spirit for giving me that information” and learning to trust and to say, okay, I don’t understand why this is happening. I have no idea why this is happening, but I trust that it is for my benefit and for other people’s benefits that that is going to teach me or lead me in a way that’s going to be helpful to me and to all the Oneness. I’ve learned so much from all of you, and I continue to do so, and it’s just that divine timing is unbelievable.

Chris: Sherry, I see you, but I want to piggyback on what Jane just said. Can we come back?

Sherry: Yeah, okay.

Chris: Jane, I totally agree, and I’ll make this one really short, because I’m doing a whole lot of talking. But six years ago, I fell off of a ladder and broke my wrist, my arm, and I’d never broken any bones, and I was so proud of myself. This was in September, and in December, I always used to put up the Christmas lights around the house and we have a house peak over the cement driveway, and I always use the extension ladder to go up to put the lights up. I broke my arm in September, and the day I was putting up the lights, after deciding not to put the lights up all the way around the house, they told me this was an exit point. This helped me understand that this was just a broken arm. I could have had a broken whole body if I would have done it again. So, I totally agree. They give us information. It may not be a spirit loved one, but it can be Spirit. I was lucky they gave me a warning for an exit point, and I got it.

Jane: Right for sure.

Chris: Sherry.

Sherry: So, yeah, I think I brought this up in the book club. but for me and it happens a lot as long as I’m paying attention. My dog one day started limping, couldn’t use her back leg, and I thought, well, let’s just give it a day and she’ll be fine. And then something shouted at me to get her to the emergency hospital because by that time the vet was closed. She had torn through her ACL. The people there were wonderful. About 10:30 at night, the vet figured out that a surgeon had been scheduled to do another dog surgery, the same surgery the next day, and it was all scheduled. She asked me if I wanted to see if I could take that spot. At first, it was, I don’t know, and then it was like, oh, God yes. She called the surgeon at home. It was, I don’t know, 11 or 12 at night. And he said, yes. I took her back in. They wanted to keep her overnight but I said no. She’s fine now. I mean, she’s perfect. We’re walking three miles a day, and that was just a matter of listening, and it gets back to trusting. And I just say I have to get out of my own way and stuff works. Life works.

Chris: Well, you were, I think, trusting what you were just talking about. You know, with every experience we have, we trust a little bit more. I mean, that’s how we build trust and so with each time you did, you know it, it’s not just to happenstance you know you’ve experienced. And it’s not that you believe that something is happening. It’s that you’re trusting that it’s actually happening.

Sherry: Yeah, and that it is too good to be true. Yeah, it is true, right?

Chris: Right, right.

Well, my friend here just gave me kind of a warning when we come back from our one insight that we did tonight. Does anybody else have comments to make about divine timing, divine intervention, divine orientation, any of those that they wanted to share about their experience or did something that somebody said maybe spur a memory for you to acknowledge that maybe that was Spirit helping you in a in a life situation? You’re welcome to speak.

Are we at 6:30 Jane? Well, we didn’t get near as far. I went through last night and figured we did two questions, two insights the first time, and three the second. And so, I said, “okay, we’re going to do four this time.” And we didn’t do it. So, I guess we’re going to have to come back to finish these. I think that’s what SADO told us last time, right?

Jane: That’s right. And I think you know what, Chris, don’t worry about the schedule because I think SADO’s always the one in charge of the schedule.

Chris: There is somebody who is a comedian on the SADO team right now because they’re laughing. They have been laughing for the last few minutes that I was kind of talking, summarizing everything. Because this is not supposed to be a really fast process.

Jane: Right.

Chris: But take it for what it is, and that’s why they’re laughing at it.

Jane: Well, they’re hysterically funny. So those of us who have worked with them for a while have found them to be… they think they’re very funny. We just think they’re funny.

Thank you, Chris, so very, very much for doing this for us. These insights are so helpful and so beneficial. And again, I’m learning from everybody who’s speaking and those of you who even aren’t just to feel your energy come through. It’s wonderful. We will definitely be together again, and we will be together on April 9 at same time. The SADO Book Club is not this Saturday the 14th, but the following Saturday the 21^st. And again, we’ll be working with chapter 1 from the actual book. And now that we have it, I think Janet, you had a count for how many books were sold? Did I see that come through or not?

Janet: We’re up to 22 books now.

Jane: Okay, great, perfect.

Janet: Almost all print.

Jane: Great, yeah, so Janet is kind of keeping her eye on the Amazon process for us. She’s the one that had to go through and figure all of this out and read their mumbo jumbo and put it into to action for us so we could actually be able to have the books out for you so we’re very happy that SADO’s very happy. Happy that we have 22 souls they say that are going to be healed by their words. And that’s really what this book is book is. Awakening is a healing book. Just like these sessions are healing. They’re coming in and providing that healing energy, whether it is spiritual or mental or physical or emotional, they’re right there, and that’s what this is all about, is their ability to heal us while we’re in these bodies. So, thank you, thank you, thank you all so very, very much, and especially Chris, thank you. You’re doing a fantastic job bringing this information through. And it’s so funny because, as Chris has explained to you, she really felt that her guidance was coming through. And SADO said, okay, so yeah, you just let her think that. And so, I started poking at her.

Chris: Well, it was, yes, exactly I got this. I think I said this earlier. I received this (Awakening, the SADO book) yesterday afternoon, and so I was trying to work on these insights last night. And I kept going to the book, and I kept moving around, and there’s something else I have to read and then I have to move something up. Oh, I remember that. And so, there was just so much that blended. Like I said, as this process has continued, it’s not just the 12 voices, it’s SADO and we’re all One, and so we’re all saying, doing, feeling and thinking the same things. And so, this is just a different way of learning. You know, Jane would channel SADO, and that’s one way of getting the wisdom from SADO. And then this was just another way of bringing all of this wisdom together and for us to see again, another way that we are all One, not just SADO, not just our Spirit guidance team, not just our spirit loved ones, but we are all One – capital O, N, E. I just love how this is progressing and I’m hoping this is helpful to you all too.

Jane: Yeah. This is not a very pleasant thing to say, but I will tell you that SADO just came through and said that this is actually a bathroom book. You’re only supposed to be reading a little bit at a time. So, what Chris was doing last night was exactly what they were pushing her to do. Read a little of this. Now, go do that. Now, read a little bit of this, and then go do that. They could have found a better way to kind of discuss that. But again, they think they’re very funny.

So again, thank you everybody so much for being here, and I hope to see you in the book club next Saturday, the 21st at 11 am Eastern, and, if not or/and at our April meeting which will be wonderful, and Chris will continue giving these great insights that she was able to collect from her guidance.

Thanks everybody. Thanks so much for being here.

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